Thursday, August 9, 2007

MLM Success Secret - Success Comes By Loving You First

In order to be successful in Network Marketing you need to have a genuine care for people. I would even say that you need to love people. So many opportunities out there are trying to take people out of the equation. They promise big bucks with no human contact. I get offered opportunties telling me that there is no calling, selling, meetings, etc. Actually, I would love a program like that. But the FACTS are that people want to deal with people. They want to know that the program you are offering works and that can YOU teach THEM how to do it.

If you want a successful business you must love people. If you want to love people, you must first love yourself. How we treat people is a mirror of how we feel about ourselves. The first thing you have to do breakthrough in order to love others is to first love YOU.

Look in the mirror. I bet you have a complaint about what you see. "I'm too fat! My nose is too big! I have this scar!" and the list goes on and on. I was at the drugstore today and saw a tabloid exposing the "cellulite deposits" on some movie stars caught on the beach. Do you know what this crap is saying? It is saying if you have cellulite, you are not perfect; there is something wrong with you! The same message is being conveyed if you are 1 once over-weight! The tabloids, glarmour magazines, and movies are telling you day be day that you are not perfect. You are lacking. You are inferior. There is SOMTHING wrong with YOU! This is nonsense!

The fact is, YOU ARE PERFECT, as you are. You were made by a loving God to be YOU. You cannot begin to love and care for others properly as long as you have a problem with YOU. The Bible teaches that, "You should love your neighbor as YOURSELF." What this is really saying is that in order to love your neighbor you need to love YOU first. Many try to love others, but fail because of a lack of love for themselves. How you treat others is a mirror of how you treat YOU.

My challenge for all of us is to begin loving YOU! Appreciate YOU! Thank God for making you YOU. For there is none like you and there will never be. YOU are unique. YOU are special. YOU are precious. When you see this, you will treat others the same.
Friends, network marketing is a people business. Forget the money, that will come when you love people. Don't fall for the claims that you can do it all without contacting people. Maybe you can for a short period of time, but ultimately you will not have LASTING success. You need people and they need YOU!

When you wake up tomorrow morning, look in the mirror and say, "INSERT YOUR NAME , you are awesome and wonderfully made. You are perfect because you are you. You are unique and special and there is no one like you!" This is not pride or vainglory; this is a fact. Do this every morning and watch your attitude toward others change. The reach out, help your downline grow and reach their goals. Before you know it, all your dreams will come true

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Good stuff dude